kalpurna

I really, fundamentally don't get fic or pairings where one partner is defined as being always the top, or always the bottom. [Disclaimer: this does not mean that I have not read and adored particular fics of this type, only that I had to overcome my issues to like them.] I guess you could call this a squick, of a sort, except that it's not a knee-jerk EWW reaction, so much as a pervasive sense of discomfort.

( I don't believe that sexual positions necessarily echo power in a relationship. )