Glee, more glee, a moment of tinhatted sadness, and a Spencer picspam. : comments [kalpurna]

I have a really big responsible polyamory kink. This is what happens when you read The Ethical Slut, like, way early in your psychological development. Because it's all about TRUST and knowing your partner (Frank would never hurt you! I mean, not even when he jumps on you, because face it, boy is tiny) and trusting his OTHER partner (who's kind of a freak, but, hey, better him than you. And now he's clean, thank God, and you don't have to yell at Frank about the condoms and menace him with the name of That Guy Who Needs To Bathe Really, Really Bad. I mean, you weren't even DATING Gerard, and the inability to say his name still wore off on you.) not to do anything stupid (always worrisome, with Gerard) and. And.

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Yeah, I definitely have a kink. And I just need to suck it up and write the fic, because. Nnnngh. I love it soso much.

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Dude, I totally respect that, but it is a big squick for me, unfortunately! I get where you're coming from, but it Just Is Not My Thing. BUT, I still think you should totally write that fic, because I know lots of people who WOULD be into it, and hey, write what you love, that's what I say. I just, I will have to give it a pass, personally. You have no idea how often I curse my squicks: do you know how many authors I love write incest fic? MANY. Sigh, my life is hard.

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Great apologies if I squicked you. I seem to have a knack for it. :\

And yeah. *nods* I understand these squick things, intellectually. Mine are kind of hazy, and probably influenced by my original fandoms, back at the dawn of time (Gundam Wing authors used to go through these phases where they would try to write the squickiest things they could, and then not actually inform people that they were in the middle of a squick-war. Oh, GWing fic. You shaped me so.) into a distressingly short list (the Big Four, Real Necrophilia, Animals, Children (!!!) and Excrement (AUGH)). Which is helpful, when reading fic, but makes it v.v. stressful indeed when you accidentally stumble onto something that violates one of them. Because OMG NO.

Ironically, I have been seen sighing over the list of authors I love who CANNOT write incest fic, because it cuts one of my OTPs off the list of requestable pairings, when meme time rolls around. (Overlapping OTPs can be a wonderful, wonderful thing. It can also get really confusing, when you have to choose one and run with it, and there are four characters looking at you expectantly going: Our turn today? With who?)

The collective life of bandomers is hard. Although it would be less hard if people put WARNINGS ON THEIR FICS, omg. One of my friends got stealth cutting fic yesterday, and, just. NO. *makes face at bandom*

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Dude, no, talking about it is fine! I just, reading it would be a problem.

Ahahahaha, REAL NECROPHILIA, I love that. Sounds like a trial by fire. Ironically, children is pretty much NOT a squick for me in fic (BUT IT IS IN REAL LIFE, OBVS) and I actively seek out post-pubescent underage stuff. Which in real life, I would find far, far squickier than polyamory. So. Uhm. There's that!

My point is, diff'rent strokes, and all that, blah blah. It would be lovely if we all shared the same kinks and squicks, wouldn't it? And if I could command my favorite authors to write in my favorite fandoms? *lost in a dream world of joy*

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Well, I write vampires. So, you know. It must be said.

And when I say CHILDREN, I totally mean pubescent and before. Because once they're 16? Sorry, I totally was a teenager less than a year ago. Those kids ooze hormones like nobody's business, OMG. If I had to deal with it then, I feel very little guilt about making it a little more palatable and thinking about Ryan Ross's ridiculous lust for Pete Wentz.

It would be lovely, but sort of boring. Because I'm pretty sure my kink list would get overridden by the fandom at large's kink list, which is quite a bit different. And doesn't involve one-human, one-vampire Waycestuous shaving-with-straight-razors in bathtubs while being filmed. More's the pity. *puts her Freak hat back on*

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heeeee, dude, those are like TWELVE of my squicks, but that is cool! I support you! Wear that hat with PRIDE. \o/

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I also am a firm believer in warnings on fic. That's a kink EVERYONE should have. Accurate warnings on fic!

(I love my Freak hat. It compliments my Iero hair. *points at icon*)

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I agree! \o/

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